Friday, September 23, 2011

Sticks and stones

It is said that sticks and stones may break bones but words will never hurt. 

Whoever who said that was obviously in denial. Words are more lethal and once uttered, can never be taken back. And people so often say hurtful words when they are hurt or angry. Even if their hurt and anger is justified, does that give them the right to hurt others with their words? By spouting those words in the heat of passion, whatever passion it may be, it is forever remembered, forever floating about one's mind.

And with that, one thought naturally leads to another. Healthy thoughts. Unhealthy pondering.

What you've said today, you can't ever take them back. If I were selfish like you, I could've spewed a whole lot more 'truth' and get it off my chest but I am not like you. If you don't open your eyes before it's too late, you'll let this poison ruin what's left of whatever that is left which right now, I don't have a clue.

Knowing you, you'll act as if all is right with the world after having one of your 'talks', after you have calmed down. But the matters at hand won't disappear till you work it out. 

At least, it's good to finally know what you really think of me.

Then again, it's a bit late for regrets, isn't it?


Kim L. said...

oh no :( I'm so sorry to hear that babe.

Hope you'll feel better in time :)
Look on the brighter side, arguments really do help you learn more about a person.

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goingkookies said...

Kim L. : thanks!! Your last sentence is true.. shows how selfish a person can be saying hurtful things when they're unhappy...and somethings said which aren't valid.

Anonymous said...

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Kelvin said...

One can kill someone with words.

U ok now?

goingkookies said...

ellenkaminagakura : :) thanks for being a follower!

Kelvin : yeah.. it can. i m. thanks for asking. curious.. is it a guy thing to say hurtful words when angry? tot girls do that..