Wednesday, November 3, 2010

How to attract guys

Women tend to place personality higher when they're scouting for their men but of course, it doesn't mean they don't look at physical appearances. Guys, however, from what I understand usually and almost always place LOOKS first and foremost among everything else. How hot you look, how well you dress, how much skin you reveal, how ample your assets are...

Of course, don't get me wrong, I am not lumping ALL women and men to the above category. It's only based on my experience with both sexes, the stories I hear and read, that I come to this general assumption. Unless my guy buddies are just about the only guys who are jerks. =p

I wouldn't exactly call myself a hunk magnet or an expert but I think the below is pretty much obvious the attributes that attracts a guys. So, read on and debunk it if you think it's untrue. Feel free to add on any other opinions or methods that you think works.

#1- Wear super short skirts or shorts


Showcase those long limbs of yours. The slender thighs and calves that you possess.

#2 Wear as revealing as possible without coming across as too skanky


I guess total nudity is awesome for some guys but apparently, less is more. They like being teased. So, show and flaunt your curves but cover to leave some sense of mystery.

#3- WOW them with your cleavage



Boobs are a big thing to a guy apparently. I was told- the bigger, the better. Even Malaysian boys like Kenwooi.com are fazed by them. =p

#4- Let them be a man and boss you around

It empowers them. Makes them feel all powerful, all man.

#5- Put on loads of make up



As much as guys say they like girls to go au natural, who do they usually check out or refer to as hot chicks? Usually the ones that have loads of make up on. Doesn't hurt if they also do #1, #2 and have #3.


One's beauty should not be solely reliant on make up and be defined by it. If people are so used to seeing a girl with make up, it can be rather terrifying to see them without. My high school friend mentioned how she bumped into our Penyelia Petang (High school Supervisor for the evening) at the morning market and was shocked by the Penyelia's appearances without make up. The women reeked of haggardness. Well, that was what my friend said. =p

There's also a story about a friend's friend how the guy gets traumatised the next morning when he has a good look at his ONS (One night stands), without their make ups. You'd think he'd learn his lessons but I guess the lure of ONS and cheap trills are too strong to say NO to. Well, serves him right and besides, obvious signs that he is not in for the long haul.

If you know me, I don't believe in #1 till #5. Well, no harm in doing any of it, just not SOLELY to get a guy IMHO. I was just stating what all magazines write and what most girls think and believe they ought to do to snare themselves a man.

But my question begs to be answered...

"At the end of the day, do you want a guy to be attracted to you, for you? Not just your looks or just about every other girl but for who you really are- the good and the bad?"

Because I think most girls these days look about the same with their coloured contact lenses, thick, long and fake eyelash extensions, skinny bodies with body hugging clothes that shows more than shield. Yeah sure, they're pretty but pretty girls seem to be a dime a dozen these days and usually, then tend to be high maintenance.

Then again, follow the above #1 till #5 if you're just looking for a ride and nothing serious, that's probably what most guys want anyway. But if you're looking for something serious, stay tuned...

11 comments:

JC said...

Meh~ To me, if I were to search for a girlfriend, I would like to see her 'true self'. I don't want to see a 'fake' person standing right in front of me, and need to wake up earlier than me and sleep later than me just to make sure I don't see her 'true self'. Or perhaps sleep with make up? No way man!

I believe in feelings though, if I love her, means no matter how she look like I still do love her. So if someone come to me without make up and be herself, and we have mutual feeling, we will be together!

goingkookies said...

JC: i only have one word to say.. "AWWWWWwwww" waitamin.. that's not a word! =p

Well, it's nice to know that there are still some decent guys out there!!

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BrendagAqA said...

JC: i only have one word to say.. "AWWWWWwwww" waitamin.. that's not a word! =p Well, it's nice to know that there are still some decent guys out there!!

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