Saturday, April 24, 2010

Boobs or legs

Had my farewell dinner with my colleagues, the yam cha gang last Friday evening, near office. These 3 people are the ones that hound me everyday for yam cha after work and always mock my wanting to go home early. *hehe* I think they always want me to join them 'cos who else would they poke fun at if not me?

Among one of the many conversations that we had that night was Ying, my colleague was of the opinion that there are 2 types of men when it comes to checking out girls. Type A checks out the boobs and there is the other type, Type B who checks out the legs.

After explaining, she asked Fai and Tang which category were they in.

Tang said that he was Type C and before he could continue, I interrupted him saying, "Type C meaning both. Boob and legs right?" Tsk tsk. Poor fella. The innocent one of us all.

Well, it's nice to know that my 2 male ex-colleagues don't fall into the hapsap category although I am sure they are not any more innocent to porno and such related matters.

Either it is just me or I dunno. Cos everyone these days seem to be into the superficial. Looks matter more than anything else. In fact, looks trump all else. No one really cares about inner beauty. At first glance, it's just how hot this girl looks or how handsome that guy is or how hot their body is and yada yada yada.

It's how low I wear so I can show my cleavage or how short my skirt can be or how tight my clothes will showcase my body etc. I am sure there are many who would say, it's nature. One needs to dress up to attract the opposite sex and so on and so forth.

Of course, I believe in being presentable and there is nothing wrong with dressing up but when we start to value a person's worth by how they look and how they dress more than how beautiful they are on the inside, then I think, something is really wrong.

Then again, we live in a society highly influenced by the media and especially Hollywood. Everyone wants to be as sexy as the celebrities, idolising them and their lifestyle to the point that we get suck into their infidelities and promiscuity and do the very same things.

It's never easy to learn the good stuff when picking up the bad stuff is effortless.

So, are you a boob guy or a legs guy? Or perhaps, you're the other type, the extinct one.


fiona06 said...

most guys nowadays too spoilt for choice so ends up in group C! :D

goingkookies said...

haha where are the leng chais hiding right?

AngelKein♥ said...

Yeahh looks does triumph mostly everything and people expect other people to dress a certain level to meet their expectations, but it all starts in our heads though(or maybe just some of our heads). Cause I'm not a very legs showing or boobs showing person, though sometimes I feel robbed of attention from girls who do, I stand my ground.

Anyway,guys who expect girls to be like Megan Fox don't realize they're not exactly Brad Pitt either.

Rofl sorry for the long comment. xx

goingkookies said...

Angelkein : it's ok.. looove long comments!! sorry.. never got the notification for ur comment.. just saw it now!

haha i ve chubby thighs and calves..a nd my hub's a legs man.. lols..

it's good for u to stand ur ground.. at the end of the day, it's u n me, we don't let others tell us how much we're worth.. we know what we're worth ;) and that's the key..

and right on spot with ur Brad Pitt COMMENT

Anneywlo said...

haha where are the leng chais hiding right?